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The chosen quagmire

The chosen quagmire or trap

is where actions are distraction 

checking the boxes of societal expectation

also feels like a solution

although it creates bigger problems 

that you know

and still you want to be utterly trapped 

in those bills and EMIs.


In reality, you are just trying to escape

that which you have tried to control,

but are now convinced is impossible


You are running away for personal sanity,

while adding more pressure to your life.


And why do you choose this option,

The simple answer is you enjoy this pain instead.

Also being busy and occupied is best way to be productive 

by avoiding recurring thoughts of self doubt that pull you down.

it frees you from overthinking and the crisis it creates

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